First day back from my extended vacation. Thanks to my surgery, it was nice and long and relaxing, although there are several days that I can’t quite remember most of. For those of you worried, it was Breast Reduction surgery, so not particularly dangerous, though scary with the frankenboobs. But it’s cool.
They removed 1320 grams, which is just shy of three pounds. Which is a lot.
Desperately trying to get through a rewrite for ScriptShadow by the 11th. I’m only a third of the way through the script. So… yikes.
I very rarely get into anything particularly personal on this blog. One, because it’s public, and two, because it rarely seems relevant to my career, which is the focus here. But sometimes the personal and the public are a bit intermixed, and that’s what I want to talk about. My health versus my career.
I have for the last few months been really struggling with extreme fatigue, dizziness and nausea. This isn’t totally out of the norm for me, I have several chronic conditions which often take the wind out of my sails: allergies, asthma, depression and hypothyroidism. Any of those on their own is usually manageable, but they pack a bit of a wallop all together. On top of this, I’ve been to the doctor a half-dozen times since this started and they’ve tested for everything they can think of and they can’t find anything wrong.
This last week has been totally lost. I was so fatigued that I cannot actually remember most of it. It is extremely frustrating. I manage to go to work which fortunately is a very low energy sort of job, but I struggle even there. I haven’t managed to do much editing because I stare at the project and get overwhelmingly tired or motion sick. I basically come home and lay down. Last night I went to bed at 10pm and got up today at 1pm; it’s not yet seven and I am barely awake. Obviously it is quite difficult to be productive, in writing or in anything else, when you’re that exhausted.
Film and TV are not careers for people with low energy. If your personality doesn’t naturally exude the sense that you’re on speed, it’s a really tough business to be in. It is probably a miracle that I got through the two years of film school with as little collateral damage as I did — one broken bone, one major case of bronchitis, three total emotional breakdowns, and three months of vomiting for unknown reasons that led to my current state as a vegetarian.
I could imagine nothing worse than letting my health dictate what it was I could and could not do with my life. But sometimes, especially after weeks like this, it’s very difficult to believe that it’s not going to do just that. Sometimes it’s hard not to go to the dark place and wallow in self-pity. Hard to remember that this is just my struggle, and, though it’s different for each of us, it’s never easy. I want to be able to offer advice to others, to make it and say, “See, my health didn’t stop me, and it won’t stop you!” But all I know is that right now it’s really hard and sometimes fighting to survive in the film business just sucks.
But here is something nice, from a fellow writer at myothercareer.wordpress.com